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    uchiha101

    Posted

    6 minutes ago, Wall-Crawler said:

    Upon reconsideration, don't do that - Don't have them come here.

    HOWEVER, if you insist on this "relationship", please webcam or Facetime or Skype or whatever with them over a safe distance several times first before blindly travelling to meet someone and be as sure as you can be that they are who and what they say they are.

    Love is blind, but don't be a dumb azzz. Stay safe.

    Ok. It's one of the things that I had in mind to do anyway. 

    uchiha101

    Posted

    1 minute ago, Hollywood1892 said:

    Because it isnt a drew Barrymore movie

    Long distance relationships are hard enough.

    When you lack the proper funds it becomes even more unbearable 

    I'll make it clear then. I may not look it but I'm loyal to my wife so I don't want other girls being brought up. Whether you or the other boardies think she's fake, not real, or even a guy go for it. But it doesn't change that fact that I'm with her.

    uchiha101

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    2 minutes ago, Hollywood1892 said:

    No

    But I can see how this might affect you going south

    If it's a woman you want to meet

    Try

    Bumble

    Tinder

    Plenty of Fish

    Christian Mingle

    Dude, this entire situation sounds like too much

    What are your friends outside of this site saying?

    My closest friends are rooting for me to meet Sam and her sister and send them pics of what she looks like. I don't WANT more dating websites now stop that.

    uchiha101

    Posted

    3 minutes ago, NoMan said:

    1. How is this thread back? I thought it was locked? Is CGC scared, too?

    2. If this is really you, the bottom photo is a pretty good one. I don't go around rating guys (not my thing but no disrespect to any boardie who does), however, you're got a good looking look to you. I don't see why real life girls would be a problem for you. Stay off the internet girls and meet a real ones, like maybe at a restaurant you get a job at! You just need a direction and purpose. Girls can sense that and want it in their boyfriends or husbands or guy friends or whatever the kids say now. Please stay away from the computer and walk down the street and apply at the first nice(r) restaurant you see.

    1) This thread is back because I spoke with the mod that locked it and explained the situation

    2) Why do you think I'm lying? Both these pictures are me. Real life girls aren't a problem for me. But I don't want anything to do with the girls here. I won't be satisfied till I see Sam and her sister. Call me stubborn but I don't care about any other girl. I will just blow them off if they try something. 

    uchiha101

    Posted

    48 minutes ago, Wall-Crawler said:

    How much more hurtful can it get?

    I kind of get what you are saying/your intention, but if he finds out the relationship is a sham, he would be hurt. However, I would argue that would be less hurtful for him to find out now rather than after he finally gets his passport and bus ticket or whatever to go see god knows who and gets stuck there, or worse.  As much as people are giving him a hard time, most people here trying to tell him that this "relationship" is not real (this is her picture but not her picture/super powers, really?) so he does not get hurt or taken advantage of. 

    So you think Sam would be giving a different answer to everyone else as opposed to myself just asking her in person?

    uchiha101

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    1 hour ago, Hollywood1892 said:

    I understand the soldier thing,and the impact of aggressive and violent video games.

    Being a soldier suggest unity and togetherness,something that he feels he is lacking here in the group by the cavalier responses he is getting.

    This is a good chat site,where nobody would ever steer you in the wrong direction Gabe.

    I've said it before

    A healthy mind needs a healthy environment to grow.

    I'm not the healthiest but I'm not a bat crazy person like people make me out to be. 

    uchiha101

    Posted

    1 hour ago, F For Fake said:

    This. I've been reading Gabe's journal since it first began, though I never commented, because I was pulling for him. But things have spun out of control, and this isn't funny anymore.

    I believe that Gabe believes everything that he is saying is true. I don't think he's lying. I think he is being lied too, and he believes it, because he is apparently not in a great space mentally right now.

    Gabe, your decision making hasn't been great over the years, but you used to show some ambition and gumption. I hope you'll return to that. This fantasy-land about Sam isn't healthy, and I am sincerely worried about your mental state when you find out the truth.

    I'm not trying to lecture you, because I know you will react poorly to that. But please, get some help, and get your head straight. If you're still hung up on Sam, you need to get over this hurdle so you can move on. You need to Skype or Webcam or something so you can see who you're actually talking to, and then you can move on with your life. No excuses for you or for her, just do it, like ripping off a band-aid or jumping in a cold pool of water. May seem tough, but once you do it, you'll wonder why you waited so long. If she is what she said she is (she should be able to prove what she looks like and even demonstrate these "powers" via webcam) then that should light a fire under you to go ahead get your affairs in order so you can go see her. And if she is lying to you, which seems more likely, then you can finally admit it to yourself, and move on with your life.

    You've said your health isn't good. You say you're not sleeping. Fantasies about being trained to be a soldier by a super powered internet wife...dude, this is seriously alarming. YOU ARE NOT WELL.

    I wish you the very, very best. Get it together. This journal began as "your road to success". Get back on that road, bud!

    As for the rest of us: guys, this is a kid. A delusional kid. It was funny until it proved to be scary. Don't throw more gas on the fire. I'm not even going to look at this thread again because I don't want to be a party to it. I've said my piece. But don't egg him on. It's not cool.

    Man, you've really blown things out of proportion. I am not going to be some "solider" but just regular training to become stronger. I am not deluded it's just that I have an unusual life that makes people believe that I am. 

    uchiha101

    Posted

    1 hour ago, Red84 said:

    Gabe, do NOT do this. This will in no way help you and will possibly hurt the relationship that you have. Having her say anything on the boards would not prove anything to anyone.

     

    To EVERYONE POSTING here, please think about what you are saying and suggesting before you write it. Think about the possible ramifications of what you are saying and whether you are being helpful or hurtful.

    So you think it's a bad idea? 

    uchiha101

    Posted

    3 hours ago, Hollywood1892 said:

    I agree about the fear.

    And this can happen with people who cant see their success,they develop an inferiority complex and look for someone stronger than themselves,but than they can never meet that persons expectations,so it actually makes the complex even worse.

    Than they begin to create a false reality for themselves,one that is built on deceit,and the problem with that is,they begin to believe this fable because it protects them from the pain of their lack of self confidence.

    What you need to do Gabe is believe in yourself,first and foremost.

    Develop a strong work ethic,self love and supreme focus on the goals you want to achieve in life.

    But these have to be realistic goals

    Use the SMART goal setting module

    S-Specific

    M-Measurable

    A-Achievable

    R-Relavant,Realistic

    T-Time Framed

    The goal setting is a strategy

    While the steps are the tactics to completing your overall objectives

     

    What are you talking about? I was just saying that I'm not lying or afraid of seeing Sam and you went into a speech 

    uchiha101

    Posted

    Just now, Axmen said:

    ok Im just letting you know - women do not put up with dudes who sound like they are making excuses for not coming to see them.  Talking about doing it is fine, but eventually she is gonna get tired of waiting.  Sounds like she is the best thing that ever happened to you, I dont want you to lose out.  you may never meet a girl with superpowers again!

    Thanks I appreciate that. I don't intend to leave her hanging. I will be seeing Sam and yes, she's one of the best things to ever happen to me.