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You’llBelieve78

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  1. True, I posted the email of what I said and it was only one email and leave it at that
  2. I did mean to add I it’s true I did swear, but not attacking him, This is the email he was talking about with the swear words.
  3. I never said he sweared at me and I said I did that, I mentioned it in one of my posts and I only sweared twice in one email, not multiple
  4. I actually did apologies to him but never got a response.
  5. Actually no that’s not the case I’m in financial problems, and how is it an excuse when it’s true, sometimes they’re things I don’t understand fully
  6. Agreed, I’m pretty much going on with my life and move on, I’d like to thank everyone who posted cause it helped me understand this type of business a bit better! Is there a way to lock the thread? Cause I feel like it’s time to, nothing really more can be said edit: spoke to the mod about it, so we’ll just let the thread die off.
  7. There was a few exchanges made a few months before the heated exchange (January and December) (I thought I added that?) September was when I messaged general query questions, I received the invoice around the 23rd and didn’t respond because I didn’t think of it at the time because I thought that was for me and thought he would message me back about it on when I’ll pay for George to start, though he did 3 weeks later but said the piece was finished.
  8. True lol, I also have to say thanks to everyone who posted as these posts have helped me understand more and alerted more on the business, To be honest, this is the first time I'm seeing this, I didn't check on the CAF site, just checked online talking about the commissions and contact info, in which I asked pretty general query, but with my style of writing might've meant something else.
  9. Not trying to get off anything if that’s what is being implied, yes I do have Aspergers and do sometimes have trouble understanding things.
  10. True, I thought the invoice it was for me when I was able to pay because that's how I thought things worked, I'm still a bit new at this , And I also asked about the commission before I had financial problems and was hoping to pay soon, though my job doesn’t pay well so it would be a while to pay, I didn’t think to say anything about canceling because of that reason, around the time the piece was finished ( a few weeks after) was when my financial problems came about, also I’m slightly autistic so it’s a bit difficult to understand a few things and also why my writing style is a bit confusing. Yea, the reason I posted this was because as a lesson for others who have problems like this as well.
  11. Yes true, my writing tends to lack clarification due to the fact I'm very fast at writing
  12. That’s the thing, I did speak to him about it, he hasn’t responded to me at all after, I was hoping to work it out, I was a bit rude by to him a little because I thought the way he emailed me was a bit uncalled for (I understand he’s representing George Perez and I haven’t paid) and also he threaten to blacklist me, So I told him what was going on, why I couldn’t pay, and was a bit rudely because I was a bit mad about something that happened yesterday, I apologize and never got a response from him back after he responded.
  13. That’s pretty much it, I don’t ever recall giving a go to Spencer, I did ask about inquiries but I never gave an indication to buying it, though I did say I wanted something specific as just an example but I guess he took it as a go, then three weeks later he told me it was done and I had to pay up. And then I said I’d in like a few weeks but broke that promise because that was the beginning of the money problems, And then again cause everything was a bit better and hoping to surprise that I got it and pay him, I was should’ve said something but didn’t.
  14. Oh I don't have it, He did say he would sell it to someone else if I didn't pay, but yes everything you guys are saying is true.
  15. Hey! I'm new here! I was wondering if anyone had any dealings with Spencer Beck? I didn't really have a good outcome, I e-mailed him in September about a question about George Perez' commissions, I wasn't planning to buy anything but I did send an example to him of what I wanted but just as a general query which was 700 in total, then I got an invoice from him but I didn't think of anything, I thought that had to be filled out once I got the money together and he would give it to Perez, not the other way around, which is what happened (and later Beck told me that is unacceptable, despite the fact many art dealers and artists I've dealt with did that), So not trying to disappoint or say anything which would cause drama and I didn't want to start drama, I said I would be able to get 700 to him, unfortunately since then (six months), I've been having many problems with bills and my home, my house is on the verge of being foreclosed, So I tried to hold the commission off and tried to keep promises I couldn't keep because something came up and didn't give updates because I thought it would be fine once I paid, when I did, and also I don't want to tell anyone about my personal problems, I don't really care now anymore, So anyway I got a message from him telling me how I was being unfair to him and Mr. Perez and threaten to blackmail me from his artist because of this mess, It was never my idea to being disrespectful but who would want to disappoint someone, I wasn't going to say I can't pay it after he sent the invoice, So I did respond to him and told him about why I couldn't pay and so on (He did go on saying the e-mails were rude and disrespectful with some swears, True, but I didn't swear at him, I was saying how hard it was to do this and trying to be committed and they way he e-mailed me I thought I was being disrespected because of the stuff I'm going through, and I was still trying to pay), So then he went on saying: "You received an invoice on 09/23/17 ... if you did not want it or could not afford it, you should have said something then. Not waited until you got an email three weeks later saying it was completed." I couldn't because he didn't say I had to pay or anything and I thought that was for when I was ready for pay and Perez would start, not the other way around, he really wasn't specific and when I told him And I didn't expect him to go ahead when I didn't think I ordered anything, So I messaged him back, apologized, got nothing back, so that's my story. Has anyone else gone through this with this guy as well?